Frequently asked questions
How does screening work?
I take your privacy, as well as my safety, very seriously. Any details provided to me will be treated with the utmost confidence and used only for the purpose of ensuring a mutually satisfying experience.
Prior to meeting, I require first and last name, email/phone as well as 1-2 reputable provider references (can be in the form of P411 or PrivateDelights handle), along with their websites, email addresses, and dates you met them.
Alternately I will accept a picture of your driver’s license and corresponding linkedin account (must have a picture and linkedin connections) or business website. I may additionally or alternatively ask that you send an email from your work email address to a separate, discreet unlisted email address of mine.
If you're a newbie (welcome!) or can't provide the above forms of vouching, the following information will assist me in the screening process:
-Full legal name
-Email address
-Phone number
-Date of birth
-Town of residence
-Employer name
-For newbies who are on the younger end (or anyone who's age I am not able to verify with the above info), I may require additional screening to ensure you're over 18
Things NOT to include in your message: crude or explicit descriptions, unsolicited nude pictures.
Note that I require a $100 deposit for all new bookings to hold the appointment and ensure legitimacy. The deposit is subtracted from your total donation for our session and can be paid through my squarecash or giftrocket. If you need to cancel within the acceptable time window I will happily return it to you.
What if I have to cancel?
What if I have to cancel?
I understand, sometimes things come up! That said, both my time and yours are valuable and we are both making a commitment to reserve time in our schedules when a date is booked. Out of courtesy, I ask that cancellations are made at least 48 hours in advance. If you have to cancel and absolutely aren't able to give 48 hours notice, I require a cancellation fee of 25% that can be sent to my squarecash. If you cancel within 24 hours 50% of the total donation is expected. Failure to comply with my cancellation policy shows me that you do not respect my time and energy, and will result in being denied for any future bookings.
Do you enjoy libations?
Certainly! Though I may opt to take the bottle to-go rather than share it during our time together if I have to drive home (a smart way to get around this is booking a longer date)! That said, I'm quite fond of wines and bubblies—a dry red, delicately infused mead, or cold glass of champagne is always sure to bring a smile to my face. All I ask is that you bring bottles unopened if you would like me to partake!
How should I prepare for our time together?
In essence, I expect my clients to be courteous, prompt, and respectful. Please show up on time and be squeaky clean upon meeting or prepared to shower on location. I do also ask that you not only are clean, but come wearing minimal fragrance. I am sensitive to strong cologne/perfume/bath products, and am able to enjoy myself more fully in the absense of them!
In terms of mental preparations, please consider your desires around what you'd like to get out of our time together and be prepared to discuss boundaries and consent!
Donations are to be placed in an unsealed envelop on a visible surface before my arrival for outcalls and upon arriving for incalls, without comment. Under no circumstances is it acceptable to arrive intoxicated or with weapons of any variety in your possession. I reserve the right to terminate a session at any point due to rude behavior, feeling unsafe/disrespected, or violation of any above listed requirements.
Are you able to provide specific outfits?
Absolutely, I love to dress up and/or to dress you up! All I ask is if I don't already have the clothing you had in mind, it is up to you to either provide the outfit upon our meeting, or provide the funds for me to acquire it beforehand. The weirder the better, don't be afraid to request what's on your mind! That said, I will never dress up in costumes portraying another race or culture that is not my own, so please don't even bother if that's what you're looking for.
